Top 5 men I am avoiding in my dating life…

 

I have narrowed down what type of man I will avoid like the plague, these men have red, white and blue flags.

 

First off the Entertainer- the act or process of providing pleasure, recreation, or amusement

 

This man is the type that would say “ I paid for dinner so we should sleep together” child please my kitty cost a lot more then even the most expensive dinner. If you are looking to build a relationship then don’t date this type of man, but if you just want to have fun then all means go for it. 

Remember this man may have a wife, girlfriend or boyfriend if you are not careful LOL.

 

I have noticed the entertainer is always a good date because they put forth enough effort for the outcome they want, that is why you have to be clear on what you are looking for to avoid any negative confrontation during the date. When you been dating the entertainer for awhile hoping of course you can change them 😊you can lose a lot of years and still end up just being entertained by him, or worse being the entertainment for him.

 

Next the Tied Down man- restrain from independence by an obligation

 

This man always have prior obligations you are NOT his first priority, he could have baby mamma issues or you find out he is living with his supposed EX  for financial reasons. WTH is really going on? You will see him whenever it is convenient for him not the other way around. But, here we go again thinking with time you will become top priority. Should you blame yourself or him?

 

Next the Hideaway man- a place where you go to hide or to get away from other people

 

This man is the type that just wants Netflix and chill night “at your house”, or always have an excuse why you guys shouldn’t go anywhere and be seen together. The hideawayguy is always pleasant to be around and enjoying his company is the trap that keeps you in the relationship after a while. And once you start demanding more time outside in the streets you will see the distance they will start putting between you.

 

Next the Someone dated man – when you date a man your friend, or family member was involved with

 

Now this man is to be avoided unless you are messy LOL, I am not here to judge but how comfortable will you be dating or building a relationship with someone your friend or worse your family member had relations with.

I am not talking about they dated a few times and nothing came of it, I am referring more to an actual relationship and all it entails.  

 

Finally my numerous uno the Rebound man- being in a relationship based on a reaction to a previous relationship, where one or both members are still contending with issues raised by the past breakup

 

This is the most dangerous man of all, and yes I know you want to give him a chance because time will heal all wounds.

Give him the space and time to get over his EX and no you can’t sex his feelings away because in the end you will get hurt or worse, you may end up In a relationship for years feeding off his negative and hurt feelings he has for her.

 

Well just my thoughts….